{"id":3502,"date":"2012-05-08T13:01:22","date_gmt":"2012-05-08T07:31:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/calamur.org\/gargi\/?p=3502"},"modified":"2012-05-08T13:01:22","modified_gmt":"2012-05-08T07:31:22","slug":"a-girl-called-rinkle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calamur.org\/gargi\/2012\/05\/08\/a-girl-called-rinkle\/","title":{"rendered":"A girl called rinkle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/pawandurani\"><strong>@pawandurani<\/strong> <\/a>on twitter pointed me towards the story of Rinkle Kumari in Pakistan . I knew there was an issue vis-a-vis the rights of minorities across the board. I knew there were atrocities. but frankly, the\u00a0occurrences\u00a0across the border have not been in my line of sight. I read some articles\/columns as and when I come across them, but it is very, very superficial reading. When Pawan pointed me to her story, i began reading about her in more detail. To paraphrase Stalin, one person&#8217;s story is a tragedy, millions are statistics<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What i am going to do here is just compile content from various sources, it is heart rending. It is\u00a0medieval\u00a0and it makes you (me) cry at the tragedy of the entire thing. I totally respect journalists &amp; activists such as <a href=\"http:\/\/marvisirmed.com\/\"><strong>Marvi Sirmed<\/strong> <\/a>\u00a0in Pakistan working under\u00a0tremendous\u00a0pressure, in almost hostile territory, \u00a0not just towards minorities but also towards independent women who assert their citizenship rights,\u00a0\u00a0to keep cases like this alive. I wonder if it was me, would I have that kind of courage that Marvi exhibits in such a hostile environment. or would it be more\u00a0convenient\u00a0to hold my peace &#8230; \u00a0I hope it is the former. I really do.<\/p>\n<p>In short, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thehindu.com\/news\/international\/article3328893.ece\">Rinkle Kumari<\/a><\/strong> is one of the<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>three young Hindu women who were allegedly kidnapped, forcibly converted to Islam and married off to Muslim men chose to live with their husbands instead of their families after the Supreme Court of Pakistan on Wednesday allowed them to choose their future.<\/p>\n<p>Though the three women \u2014 Rinkle Kumari, Lata and Asha \u2014 were allowed to choose according to their free will by the court, their relatives and civil rights activists alleged that injustice had been done to them as they chose to go with the men they were married to out of coercion.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefridaytimes.com\/beta2\/tft\/article.php?issue=20120413&amp;page=9\">Marvi Sirmed<\/a><\/strong> writes on this<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Rinkle was kidnapped on February 24 by Naveed Shah and four other people. Police refused to lodge an FIR and to include the names of the influential Mian Aslam, Mian Rafique and their father Mian Mithu. She was produced in the court of Civil Judge Ghotki where she insisted on going to her family but the judge illegally sent her to the police custody in Sukkur Women&#8217;s Police Station.\u00a0In sheer mockery of the President of Pakistan and his party Co-Chairperson, Mithu announced in front of many civil society activists that if Rinkle&#8217;s custody is snatched from him, he will set Mirpur Mathelo ablaze. The president had given a media statement against forced conversions earlier that day. &#8220;Come what may, justice will have to prevail&#8221; was the answer in a firm strong voice when I asked Raj Kumar, Rinkle&#8217;s uncle, if he was scared. Probably this resolve has come from years of persecution and injustice. &#8220;It has been decades that Hindu girls have been abducted and forcibly converted. We hear little or no voice at all against this oppression,&#8221; said Amar Lal, counsel to Rinkle Kumari&#8217;s family.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A press release put out by activists and civil society <a href=\"http:\/\/marvisirmed.com\/2012\/04\/18\/press-conference-on-forced-conversions-of-hindu-girls-to-islam\/\"><strong>says<\/strong> <\/a>that<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It made us extremely concerned when Rinkle Kumari was produced in the Supreme Court on March 26 and after recording her statement in-camera, she screamed in front of media that she wanted to go to her mother and that she was converted forcibly. We are astonished to know that Mian Mithu has been involved in buying and selling of Hindu girls, as has been reported in Sindhi language newspapers and as per information from the victims\u2019 families. A girl Anita was abducted and married to a Muslim from whose home Mian Mithu\u2019s nephew abducted her and sold her to another hand. She is reportedly living with her fourth buyer, reportedly at the behest of this Mian Mithu.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Mian Mithu is a MP. Rinku Kumari is a barely educated woman with zero rights because of both her gender and her faith.<\/p>\n<p>The Question is what should India do ? Does India offer citizenship rights to all Hindus in Pakistan? it could. But, then why not all Christians &#8211; they face tremendous discrimination as well? Why not people from Baluchistan? indeed why not Ahmediyas. Why not women who are discriminated against? After all, civilisationally &amp; culturally we &#8211; especially the Northern part of us &#8211; has a lot in common with those across the border. In fact far more in common with them than with citizens from the South or the North East or even the East. Why not those in Bangladesh or in China or the Burmese or Tamils from Sri Lanka? And should the granting of asylum be only for those of Indian origin?<\/p>\n<p>I personally believe that India needs to evolve a very pro active system of granting asylum. We need to start projecting an image that respects rights and gives a home to those who are persecuted,\u00a0discriminated\u00a0and not allowed to excercise human rights. Ancient kings in the sub continent provided asylum to those who came to their shores without imposing any conditions on religion or colour. Be it the Siddhis or the Jews or the Iranians (Parsis) &#8211; they made their home and could practise their ways without interference. \u00a0The Government of India needs to throw open its doors to asylum seekers not just \u00a0in the neighbourhood, but world over<\/p>\n<p>Will there be infiltration by unwanted elements. There already is. But the needs of the many outweigh the hate of the few. There will be those who misuse the system of asylum but one Rinkle Kumari saved outweighs the risk posed by the infiltrators. \u00a0Being a superpower is more than a seat at the security council. It is also standing up and being counted. India needs to open its doors for those who want to asylum. It needs to empower our consulates and embassies to grant asylum. The Indian embassies worldwide need to become the symbols of freedom. India needs to live up to its civilisational heritage &#8211; and that is more than a number system with a zero base.<\/p>\n<p>Start offering asylum &amp; citizenship \u00a0to the discriminated in Pakistan. Don&#8217;t be afraid of starting with providing asylum to the Hindus. \u00a0Set the precedent. Set the system and expand it to all who desire <em><strong>ashraya<\/strong><\/em> &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Also have a look at this on <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/storify.com\/aliabbastaj\/where-is-rinkle-kumari-1\">storify\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>@pawandurani on twitter pointed me towards the story of Rinkle Kumari in Pakistan . I knew there was an issue vis-a-vis the rights of minorities across the board. 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