{"id":3946,"date":"2013-01-21T08:25:29","date_gmt":"2013-01-21T02:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/calamur.org\/gargi\/?p=3946"},"modified":"2013-01-21T08:25:29","modified_gmt":"2013-01-21T02:55:29","slug":"dna-column-to-achieve-peace-show-you-are-ready-for-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calamur.org\/gargi\/2013\/01\/21\/dna-column-to-achieve-peace-show-you-are-ready-for-war\/","title":{"rendered":"DNA Column – To achieve peace, show you are ready for war"},"content":{"rendered":"

My column in today’s DNA<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

This is an old story that exists in many cultures in slightly varying forms. And, despite its folksy nature, it still holds lessons for today \u2013 be it in interpersonal conduct or in international relations.<\/p>\n

Once upon a time, long, long ago, there was a little coastal village. Three sides faced the sea, and the only way out to the big town was through a forest.\u00a0 In the woods lived a great many animals, and most were hunted by the village \u2013 sometimes for food, other times for sport, yet others out of fear. Most of the residents of the forest stayed far away from the village. However, the King of Snakes had no option. His wife had just laid eggs, and he needed to stay and guard his family. The villagers found him, and fearing his poison began attacking him. The King of Snakes, did not become King by being a walk over, he was a fierce fighter and strategist. He began taking the war back to the village. A few excruciating deaths by snake bite later, the villagers suddenly found their exit out of the village blocked. The few who tried to go out were prevented by the Nagaraj. Amidst this chaos, arrived a Seer, with his disciples \u2013 by boat. The villagers received the Guru with due respect, and made his stay in the village comfortable. The Sage, pleased with the villagers, asks them if he can do anything for them. The villagers complain about the Snake. The Guru tells them, he will take care of it. When he approaches the home of the Nagaraj, the King of Snakes senses the Great Teacher and accepts him as a Guru for himself and his family. The Seer asks the Snake to leave the villagers be and not bite them. The Snake agrees. The teacher leaves telling the villagers that they had nothing to fear anymore. The villagers revert to their original terrorizing behaviour \u2013attacking the Nagaraj, destroying some Eggs, harming the wife. But, the Nagaraj and his family stick to their vow of not harming the villagers. A few months later, the Sage is passing by again.. He comes across the bruised and battered Nagaraj family. He asks them what the matter was. Mrs.Nagaraj pours her heart out. The King of Snakes looks stoically on, and tells the Guru \u2013 I stood by my word, as promised to you \u2018we did not bite them\u2019. The Guru smiled sagely and said \u201cbut, I didn\u2019t tell you not to hiss\u2019.<\/p>\n

It would be advisable for the Government and Policy Makers in India, who seek peace with Pakistan, at all costs, to read the story and internalise its teachings. A hint – The story is neither about villainous villagers nor about talking snakes \u2013 nor is it all knowing seers who provide life altering solutions. Instead, it is about projecting a vibe. A vibe which says, attack and it will cost you. Attack and you will pay the price. \u00a0The story is not about attacking, not in the least. It is also not about desiring peace so much that you get bruised and battered in the bargain. The learning from the story is simple \u2013 signal the fact that you are ready to attack to defend your turf, and willing to do grievous harm to keep yourself and those you have sworn to protect safe.<\/p>\n

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Indian Army – Image courtesy, DNA<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Peace with Pakistan is a desirable end. But like any relationship, this one too cannot be built on lies. More importantly, peace cannot be built on a foundation of resentment. It has to be built on mutual respect and understanding. Nostalgia about shared history that one province in India shared with one province in Pakistan is not good enough for the rest of India to pay the price. Breaking of peace, going back on one\u2019s word, killing soldiers, mutilating their bodies all have their origins at a single point \u2013 the last three Indian Governments have wanted Peace at all Costs. Both Mr.Vajpayee and Dr.Singh \u2013 both of whom have sought peace, have had to signal the end of talks and a willingness to walk away from the dream of\u00a0 \u201cPeace in our Times\u201d to get Pakistan to back down. Unfortunately, to achieve Peace you have to show that you are ready for war.<\/p>\n

There is a via media between the calls for war and nuclear war put forth by belligerent war mongers who want to raise viewership by raising tempers, and \u2018lets hug a neighbour today\u2019 view put forward by peaceniks who live in neither country. That via media is signalling your intent to let the peace process die, if attacked \u2013 either by uniformed men or non-state actors using Pakistan as a base. Enough, really, is enough.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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