On the eve of Maha Shivratri a great victory was won. Devotees, backed by the state and other institutions, ensured that the right to pray the way you want to, in the language that you understand, in the manner that you choose , was upheld

In the face of a growing demand for their dismissal as the priests of Lord Nataraj temple in Chidambaram, who assaulted non-Brahmin devotees for wanting to sing Tamil hymns inside the temple, the Brahmin priests ~ Dikshits ~ today agreed to allow worship in Tamil.
The Dikshits, who control the administration of the temple, relented after political parties, Leftist and Tamil nationalist groups threatened to agitate and make demands for a government takeover of the temple administration.
The Dikshits, who assaulted some devotees led by non-Brahmin priest Arumugasamy Odhuvar heading a Saivaite Mutt when they had come to sing Tamil hymns composed by revered saints of Hindu renaissance on Sunday, seemed much mellow today and welcomed volunteers of a few Leftist organisations who entered the temple for the same purpose.

And, this is 2008. Devotees still face the kind of threat that Tulsidas faced when he rewrote the Ramayan in Brij Bhasa and Jyaneshwar translated the Bhagwad Gita into Marathi … thereby making them accessible to all. People of all types arent' allowed to enter places of worship. some prevent women. others prevent 'other' castes – whatever they maybe. Which is why last night's reading was so much more poignant.

This is Dr.Ambedkar on the role of social status in our society.

That economic power is the only kind of power no student of human society can accept. That the social status of an individual by itself often becomes a source of power and authority is made clear by the sway which the Mahatmos have held over the common man. Why do millionaires in India obey penniless Sadhus and Fakirs ? Why do millions of paupers in India sell their trifling trinkets which constitute their only wealth and go to Benares and Mecca ? That, religion is the source of power is illustrated by the history of India where the priest holds a sway over the common man often greater than the magistrate and where everything, even such things as strikes and elections, so easily take a religious turn and can so easily be given a religious twist.

Take the case of the Plebians of Rome as a further illustration of the power of religion over man. It throws great light on this point. The Plebs had fought for a share in the supreme executive under the Roman Republic and had secured the appointment of a Plebian Consul elected by a separate electorate constituted by the Commitia Centuriata, which was an assembly of Piebians. They wanted a Consul of their own because they felt that the Patrician Consuls used to discriminate against the Plebians in carrying on the administration. They had apparently obtained a great gain because under the Republican Constitution of Rome one Consul had the power of vetoing an act of the other Consul.

But did they in fact gain anything ? The answer to this question must be in the negative. The Plebians never could get a Plebian Consul who could be said to be a strong man and who could act independently of the Patrician Consul. In the ordinary course of things the Plebians should have got a strong Plebian Consul in view of the fact that his election was to be by a separate electorate of Plebians. The question is why did they fail in getting a strong Plebian to officiate as their Consul?

The answer to this question reveals the dominion which religion exercises over the minds of men. It was an accepted creed of the whole Roman populus that no official could enter upon the duties of his office unless the Oracle of Delphi declared that he was acceptable to the Goddess. The priests who were in charge of the temple of the Goddess of Delphi were all Patricians. Whenever therefore the Plebians elected a Consul who was known to be a strong party man opposed to the Patricians or " communal " to use the term that is current in India, the Oracle invariably declared that he was not acceptable to the Goddess. This is how the Plebians were cheated out of their rights.

But what is worthy of note is that the Plebians permitted themselves to be thus cheated because they too like the Patricians, held firmly the belief that the approval of the Goddess was a condition precedent to the taking charge by an official of his duties and that election by the people was not enough. If the Plebians had contended that election was enough and that the approval by the Goddess was not necessary they would have derived the fullest benefit from the political right which they had obtained. But they did not. They agreed to elect another, less suitable to themselves but more suitable to the Goddess which in fact meant more amenable to the Patricians. Rather than give up religion, the Plebians give up material gain for which they had fought so hard. Does this not show that religion can be a source of power as great as money if not greater ?

The fallacy of the Socialists lies in supposing that because in the present stage of European Society property as a source of power is predominant, that the same is true of India or that the same was true of Europe in the past. Religion, social status and property are all sources of power and authority, which one man has, to control the liberty of another. One is predominant at one stage; the other is predominant at another stage. That is the only difference. If liberty is the ideal, if liberty means the destruction of the dominion which one man holds over another then obviously it cannot be insisted upon that economic reform must be the one kind of reform worthy of pursuit. If the source of power and dominion is at any given time or in any given society social and religious then social reform and religious reform must be accepted as the necessary sort of reform.

 When the religious right in circa 2008 stands up and says 'this reform is against our religious traditions, ' what they are doing is following an age old tradition of dogma. They have opposed every major social reform movement – whether it was ending caste discrimination, or rights for women, or rights for various types of minorities not sanctioned by their dogma (religious, sexual, left handers, race … what ever) . It is no different now, than it was 80 years ago… except that it is citizens pushing for our rights … where are the leaders ? 

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…. both men and women seem to support the idea that women who ‘ask for it’ tend to ‘get it’. Unfortunately, no one seems to be able to define what “it” means and whether “it” means different things to men and women ( it does !)

HT , which broke the story and led with it since New Year’s, has done a stellar job. It’s most recent update is a survey that indicates what a ‘cross section’ of men really think..

46% think that if a woman goes to a bar she is ‘inviting’ trouble; 46% think that if a woman swore at them they would be tempted to get physical or aggressive; 60% believe that the ‘ideal’ woman will be the ‘at home’ types who forswears parties and doesn’t go out; 64% of respondents believe that women in bar who are friendly are looking for ‘one night stands’.

I am not surprised. We have a very binary view of women in India – she is either the virginal wife (how ??) or the slut. There are no in betweens. R once told me that there were two kinds of women, women you had a good time with and women you went to see with your mother….

I have been following the scene in blogdom fairly closely. What is surprising is the number of male bloggers who are outraged at the incident and the number of women who are of the view that ‘women should know better’ and take more precaution.

When women, especially women who appreciate and value independence talk about a self imposed lakshman rekha – as they have done here, here, here, here - for safety and security, I understand and appreciate it….. There are times that I have thought and acted in similar ways…. but I am not sure that it is the solution.
The trouble with lakshman rekha’s is that the onus of ‘appropriate’ behaviour is put on the victim. Sita got kidnapped because she crossed the lakshman rekha (not because ravan kidnapped her) ; Draupadi gets stripped because she is a woman with5 husbands and has no shame – not because her husband lost her in a gamble and her brother-in-law stripped her; the women who got groped at and stripped were at a 5 star hotel- how dare they leave the home…. and have fun and say no to men who want to feel them up and grope them..

One of the female bloggers said that don’t go where it isn’t safe … I gagged…. what a simple solution to keep safe…. I wonder why no one thought of it earlier…. Only one problem…. … please, where is it safe ? Women get molested in buses, trains, homes, colleges, loos, outside 5 star hotels, in villages, in legislative offices, practically everywhere… so what is safe …. do we all wear the purdah and stay at home…. oops we can’t because most rapes and molestations happen in the family … then where…

Maybe, just maybe, the cause isn’t women wearing clothes that don’t cover their ‘modesty’ (what ever that is); or women getting drunk enough to totter and puke ( a horrible state to be in, irrespective of gender). Maybe the problem is that we tolerate bad behavior towards women in the home and it just becomes a habit outside. Maybe, the problem is that we tolerate this in 70% of our homes:

As many as 70 per cent of married women in India between the age of 15 and 49 are victims of beating, rape or coerced sex, the United Nation Population Fund report said.

If children in 70% of our families grow up thinking that it is ok to use violence on women, especially for sex, then it is hardly surprising that they behave in the way that they do..

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….. was SR’s response to the HT story on women being molested outside JW Marriot on New Year’s eve. Women ought to know that it is unsafe for them…..Any other time of the year is ok for women, but on New Year’s… the men would be drunk and they are going to behave that way (i.e., molesting women)…He wasn’t defending the molesters. On the contrary he was saying that times like this bring out the worst in men….. and women should know better than to be out putting them selves at risk.

picture – courtsey the Hindustan Times… the entire set of images is here.

SR is, mostly, a nice guy. He is also a secure guy who has no hassles with working women or women who earn well or women who are independent. In fact a lot of his friends are independent working women who lead an ‘independent’ life style. He is the kind of guy who will make sure that inebriated females get home safely, and the kind of guy whom parents are secure about dropping their daughters home… For a long time “SR will drop me home” was a catch phrase for going out…..He makes no value judgements on women or their life style choices , and is a supportive friend….He is also the kind of guy who would probably plough into a situation like this trying to keep unknown women safe … And, yet he made a statement like this…..

There was a time when a statement like this would make me mad…. now it merely makes me sad. If men I know and like, and who have similar value systems think like this… then it is hardly surprising that Neanderthals – men who believe that women exist for their pleasure abide….

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This from CNN-IBN:

Many refugees of Nandigram have confirmed that they had been brutally raped. Fear looms large in her eyes, the fear of CPI-M cadres. Forty-year-old Akreja Biwi doesn’t want to go back home anymore.

Last Sunday, as the CPI-M recaptured Nandigram, nearly 100 of the party cadres allegedly looted her house, raped her and her daughters. All her daughters have gone missing.

Akreja says, “They pulled her and raped her mercilessly, I have lost my daughters.”

This from NDTV,

Seventeen-year-old Sabina Yasmin is from Shatengabari, one of the epicentres of the turf war between the CPI(M) and the Maoists-backed Bhumi Uchched Pratirodh Committee, saw her future go up in smoke when her house was torched on November 6.

A bright student, Sabina wanted to be a nurse and there are many story like hers.

”I dreamt of becoming a nurse one day which is why I used to work for the health department and go out for pulse polio campaigns. Now, there’s no hope. My dreams are shattered,” said Sabina Yasmin, resident, Satengabari.

And this from Brinda Karat

Asked about rape of women in Nandigram, the 59-year-old leader said if there is any veracity in these reports, the West Bengal government will take strict and stringent action against the culprits.

and

There was “a conspiracy” to undermine the interests of the poor in Nandigram, she said.

Well I suppose that it is possible. the people of Nandigram set them selves on fire, the women raped themselves and everyone else committed mass suicide to make the CPI (M) government look bad…

I am not sure what makes me sadder …. a party that is supposed to represent the poor and dispossessed turning against the people, or a woman questioning the veracity of rape….

A word of advice to Mrs.Gandhi & other seniors in the Congress Party -if the only way that the UPA and its government can stay in power is with the support of a party as sullied as the CPI-M – maybe it is time to go back to the people……. the voters of India have traditionally done what is right …… Let there be elections……

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In the 60th year of being Independent and the 57th year of being a Republic, a different kind of May Day Story -

27-year-old Ratnamma, a garment factory worker, was forced to deliver a baby on the streets of Bangalore because her manager insisted on her filling out a leave application, despite the fact that she was in severe labour pain. The manager also insisted that no other worker accompany her to the hospital lest the production process be affected. Ratnamma delivered the baby just outside the factory. The baby did not survive.

More recently, 20-year-old Gayathri, another garment worker, was run over by the bus belonging to the same factory she worked, in front of her factory. Two others were also injured in the accident. While most factory workers were shocked at the incident, what outraged them was when the supervisors asked them to move on so as to not affect the production.

Those who are history buffs will recall that it was the dismal conditions in textile factories in the west that gave a fillip to 3 of the most equalising movements of the 20th century:

  • Labour Rights
  • Women’s Rights, and
  • The curtailing and eventual banning of child labour

I wonder if such deaths, or indeed lives, really matter at all a hundred years later. Such stories don’t even make it to the MSM – and if it is not in the media, can it really matter. Afterall, a superstar’s quest to make a ‘manglik’ a non’ manglik (what ever that means) matters more than someone dying because they had a deadline to meet! I can understand deadlines, and i can understand deliverables, and I appreciate the importance of being economically competitive and the bottom line. But, the quest for being economically competitive cannot be at the cost of the individual rights of citizens. And, the comment that ‘they always have a choice to go and work somewhere else’ does not really hold water in a non welfare state. 60 years ….. how much longer?

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This from today’s DNA:

A 24-year-old undertrial in Orissa has married a teenage girl whom he allegedly raped and got pregnant a few years ago. The traditional tribal wedding between Padmini Murmu, 16, and Khaira Hansda was solemnised at the Circle Jail at Baripada, the district headquarters of Mayurbhanj, 250 km from the state capital Bhubaneswar, where Khaira is lodged on charges of rape, a jail official said.

I suppose that kissing someone in public, or marrying outside one’s religion is against ‘Indian culture’ but getting married to the man who raped you is very much part of our culture. Afterall, the guy has redeemed the girls’ reputation by filling her forehead with sindoor. By the way, the girl is underage even now, which means that she was even more underage when she got raped. And the jail authorities organised this marriage ? ….. Isn’t there something about upholding the law that is a must for our civil servants? Before we pooh pooh this and say that the victim was a tribal, and possibly uneducated and these things happen there (where ever there is supposed to be) let’s not forget that our esteemed judges have offered the victim the prospect of matrimony with the, rapist a fair few times in cities no less. I wonder where are the morchas, or the protests or the spontaneous expression of our outrage – surely raping, harming, killing someone is against our culture – much more than kissing and cuddling and making independent choices.

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"All men who love their wives hit them" said Mrs. R to me – a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away. As I tried to pick up my jaw that had hit the floor, I argued that my father had never hit my mother …. Mrs.R sagely told me… "then he must not love her". Mrs. R was not an uneducated woman from rural India. She came from a ‘good’ family, was educated, had a career and ran her home with an iron fist. And she was not a resident of Patna or Itawa or Salem, but a posh postal address in London. I lodged with her family when my parents were transferred back from England. But given that she was 50 something when I entered my twenties … I put down her pronouncements to the fact that she came from another time and space and had a warped sense of morality. However, in the last dozen or so years that i have been back in India …. there are a number of female friends of mine who have told me more or less the same thing. While none of them linked up a loving husband to domestic violence, the overwhelming consensus was that it was ok to be hit once in a while. It happens everywhere, they told me. And, it is ok for a man to demand ‘conjugal’ rights even when the wife doesn’t want it. … they reasoned … afterall, that is the purpose of marriage. And most of my friends are ‘educated’ ‘professional’ women. None of them wants to take the matter further, in terms of reporting it to the police or womens’ support groups. "what will people say" and ‘these things happen’ seem to be the common response. So the results of the latest National Family Health Survey … whlich states that 37% of women in India face domestic violence … does not really come as a surprise to me. If anything I would think that the figure is low … I am sure that a lot of women have lied in the survey. Do you really want to tell a complete stranger that your spouse hits you? or worse, would you think that a slap or two is violence? While the Government’s legislation on Domestic Violence seems to be a step in the right direction, there is a far more fundamental battle to be won. And, that is to ensure that change happens at the societal level. Legislation of this nature, while it is to be applauded, will only work if society thinks that something fundamentally wrong. Unfortunately, in our society the role of women is so denigrated and so below that of men, that change in attitudes a major uphill struggle. Education is definitely one way, legislation is another. But, both are at a meta & macro level. Change like this has to start at the family unit. It starts from ensuring a basic level of equity — if not equlity — in dealing with the boy child and the girl child. It starts with husbands understanding that it is not ‘dharma’ to hit their wife. It starts with the wife not putting up with being slapped around. It starts with the extended family who intervene and show disapproval. And then moves on to a system that supports a woman who wants to walk out of an abusive relationship. We have the legislation in place, but none of the rest. Maybe it is time to look at the symptoms and prevention in addition to looking at crime and punishment. addendum : the reason why the ‘educated’ is in quotes is primarily because the survey believes that domestic violence is highest amongst women who are not educated and who reside in rural India.

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Finished reading Vrinda Nabar‘s excellent "Caste as Woman".

Caste as Woman

It looks at women in India not from the point of western feminist theories, but more in terms of looking at India’s own unique socio-cultural systems, which essentially serve to keep the woman as an uncomplaining victim to many ills. As she puts it:

"… in India, the discrimination against them (women) would be by and large three – fold: Sex based (Stri Jati), caste based (jati) and class based. To be caste as woman in India is to live out this triple layered existence."

Starting with a look at our women and their women – a broad literature review of western feminism and Indian sociological thought regarding women (Nabar does not believe that Indian feminism as such exists) the book moves onto look at the various staus that women occupy- from the girl child to the widow,to the roles that she plays – daughter, wife, mother – in modern society.

In the week that the UNICEF report has shown the extent of murder of girls, Nabar’s statement on the girl child is telling:

Discrimination between the sexes in India begins at birth, or even before it. It starts before the child is born, in the mother’s womb. None of the conventional blessings showered on a pregnant woman mentions daughters. ……exhort her to have atleast one son, prefrebly the first born. No well wisher, it would seem, would admit to wanting anything else.

On the great Indian Marriage – Nabar is equally caustic. Her little ballad had me in splits.

View Point ( A modern Indian Ballad)

Bring out the silver & polish the brass,
Brush off the cobwebs, and clean all the glass
Unlock the pantry, lay out the food
Keep away grandma, her manners are crude.

We’ve got a daughter we are willing to sell
He is the bargain, the profit as well;
He’s coming to see for himself, so he said
How she and our money would look in his bed

Our daughter’s a graduate, he’s no cause to moan
She’s a well brought up girl with no mind of her own
She speaks English well, has a fair pretty face
And is Five foot four inches by Lord Bhagwan’s grace

Of course she’ll be happy, I’ll tell you that flat
She’ll have her own home, produce brat after brat,
Forget all her youth, as she spins out her life
In waddling behind him, a good Indian wife.

And she’ll long to have sons; they’re boons from above
Take it from me that they’re proof of God’s love
And when all her daugthers are suitably grown,
She’ll marry them off as we’ve done our own

The book is surprisingly a lightish read. Neither too academic nor too soap boxy. In fact I think that Nabar approaches quite a few issues with almost a bizzare sense of the ridiculous. And if you read some of the strictures about women, the only response is laughter. If you took it seriously it would be far too depressing.

Definitely worth a read.

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if this had happened to a ethnic group, a religious group, or a caste or indeed a tribe – there would be pandemonium. But, it happens just to women – and therefore it is excused under a variety of heads from culture to religion to lack of education.

Ten million girls have been killed by their parents in India in the past 20 years, either before they were born or immediately after, a government minister said on Thursday, describing it as a national crisis.

The UNICEF report is a stark read. There are rays of hope -but by and large it is bleak. And unless women’s rights are looked at the same way general human rights are looked at, i really don’t see any improvement. The home, the veil, religion, customs, caste, rituals, god, society, all combine to ensure that not much changes.

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(warning: this post contains pictures that may offend the 'dignity', 'decency', and sensibility of some readers). Not Priyanka Vadera Gandhi, Not even Priyanka Chopra. But, Priyanka Bhotmange. Just a simple, ordinary girl called Priyanka who lived in a small little village called Khairlanji in the back of beyond in the state of Maharashtra. She studied in the 12th and hoped to make something of her life that would allow her to escape from the restrictions of caste, class and gender. priyanka Two months ago – on Sepetmber 29th – she was murdered. Now, she wasn't just murdered – she was gang raped by a drunken mob before that. As Shivam's harrowing post describes

four victims …..dragged away to the village chaupal, Priyanka strapped to a bullock cart. By now, men allegedly from the entire village of about 150 Powar and Kalar families had collected. Some shouted to the sarpanch to allow them to sexually assault the women.

Surekha and Priyanka were stripped, paraded naked, beaten black and blue with bicycle chains, axes and bullock cart pokers. They were publicly gang raped until they died. Some raped them even after that, and finally, sticks and rods were shoved into their genitals.

In the meanwhile

Meanwhile, Priyanka’s brothers, 21-year-old Sudhir and 19-year-old Roshan, were murdered. After Priyanka and her mother were raped, they too were murdered.

This from Shivam

They raped the women and killed all four, even as their womenfolk looked on, mute spectators to a form of justice reserved for castes lower than theirs. One woman, Sudha Dhenge, reportedly did protest but was slapped into silence. She now says she was never there.

And finally

The first photographs of Priyanka's body, that were taken by a social organisation, showed rods sticking out from her genitals. But when her body was taken to the Mohadi hospital for the post-mortem, the sticks and rods had disappeared.

Priyanka's crime – her family was Dalit and worse than that – it was a family that dared to stand up for its rights. Yet at a certain level Priyanka and her mother Surekha were also punished for being women. And how dare a woman, and a DAlit woman at that have delusions of equality? Don't we all know that historically and culturally while being a Dalit is bad enough, being a woman is worse. And God help you if you are both. Last week – my students and I were carrying out an little exercise that we conduct fairly regularly. We look at the top of mind recall stories from all the media. The students identified around 17 stories. 12 of those were entertainment or celeb oriented- Ash, Abhishek, Cricket, Rahul Mahajan. 2 of them were business – tata corus. Two of them were national/international political. And one student said Solapur. I asked what solapur and she said that some Dalits are protesting. About what, i asked. Something, she said. And my students are bright, aware and at an age where they do care about the world and get outraged about injustices. Yet they had not read anything beyond Dalits protesting. And then i did something i have never done in class. I turned brutal. I just read out part of Shivam's piece from memory – the bit where the villagers were petitioning the sarpanch to be allowed to rape the women. And the manner of the murders. There was a shocked, stunned silence. This is the first time that i have really used graphic descriptions in a class. I used to resist graphic descriptions – and given the fact that i teach media and how media impacts society – i used to be careful about explaining stuff like decency and dignity and all those wonderful terms. But, somehow this time around i realised that trying to pussyfoot around the topic is not going to help. That my students, future journalists and media people have to know what is going on and how. and so does everyone else. Family of four killed in Nagpur or Solapur does not really describe the story or its implications. And it is with this in mind i have decided to link to the pictures of the victim. A girl called Priyanka is dead. She was murdered by men who demanded the right to rape her and then kill her. The permission was granted. And we want to be polite about it? A woman called Surekha is dead. She is also gang raped and murdered. Two young men called Sudhir & Roshan and beaten to death. And we use flowery terms like 'dignity in death'. What dignity? The dead are dead, and what we are trying to do is protect the dignity of the living. Our dignity. We don't want to see a raped and murdered woman's photograph because it offends us. Not the act but the picture. I have been following the Indian blogospheres' reactions on the incident. And, almost like in a black farce, beyond a lipservice to outrage at the act – it has focused mainly on whether a blogger should have published the picture or not. As someone pointed out on beaupeep's blog

Common man wants to learn and wants to learn the essence. He can very well picturise : a dead body or what a rape or mutilation can leave behind on a human body. Are you achieving any purpose beyond disturbing his mind one bright morning.

As I said – dignitiy and decency and all the polical correctness is for us. not the dead. i hate to use the analogy of Fox News – but the fact remains that those who have been screaming about the 'dignity of death' (pray tell me what is dignified about being gangraped, having rods and objects shoved into you, and necrophilia) have really taken a leaf out of the best propagandists in the world. When the issue is important scream out a different question. A few months ago when Priyadarshini Mattoo's family was finally given justice – i asked my students a question – if the woman was poor, dalit and from the back of beyond, would there have been so much outrage and outcry. I guess i have got my answer. Other reads Shivam Vij The Great Bong Atrocity News images courtsey: The life, thoughts and teachings of Beau Peep

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